HOW TO WIN ARGUMENTS WITHOUT LOSING FRIENDSHIPS

DO YOU WANT TO KNOW THE SCIENCE OF ARGUMENTS AND WAY TO AVOID THEM?

 Disagreeing things doesn’t spoil your friendship until you do it in a respectful manner being an individual you can keep your point  without using physical violence or showing any signs through which your body language would affect your friend negatively. You should have a productive argument without making the other person feel judged or insulted. Avoid using harsh words and make the other person feel that you are guiding him and explaining why you are right instead of making him feel guilty or insulted. Do not panic keep yourself calm and make the other person feel comfortable. Make your friend realize that why he is wrong. Take the moral high ground and avoid sarcasm and blaming. Invite your friend to share his perspective on your findings and keep your arguments simple and coherent. One can give his perspective and prove themselves right without losing a friend. 

Now just imagine losing a really close friend over a tiny issue which you can literally forget in 5 minutes! It sounds simple but is much deeper than it looks. People are used to judging people which results in argument We don't put ourselves in others' shoe and look from their perspective even once because then comes our ego. This ego is such a dangerous thing as it simply manipulates us to act in the exact way which we don't want to. So without any thought, we jump to conclusions and place an argument. 

When two persons' interests clash, they tend to act in a way where we want to prove our point right rather than understand both sides of the argument. When we start to understand other person's perspective, it just becomes so simple to stop an argument as you actually yourself take control of the situation. You have to make the other person to understand both sides of the argument. If he is a wise person, he will understand. If is an ignorant person, then there is nothing you can do because their mind is designed in such a way where they think that only their argument is right. The only way to deal with them is to put both sides in front of them and let them decide!

'NEVER LET A SMALL ARGUMENT DETROY YOUR BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIPS WITH YOUR DEAR ONES'